DarkAngelBGE Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 What would you suggest ? Anything that can be done about that ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akya Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 maybe invite them to have a supper with your parents as well ?bring something for the mom when you go at your gf's placehelp with the cooking & cleaningbest thing is to figure out why they don't like you so you can change it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkAngelBGE Posted April 4, 2004 Author Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 But what if it is something that you cannot change or don't want to change ? Like your parfum. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Tutankhamun Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 You mean your cologne Tim? Smile a lot and be friendly to them, afterall they may become your inlaws.Get on their good side, and say please and thank you when at dinner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akya Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 isn't it cologne ?anyway, if you don't want to change it, just don't wear it when you go at her place Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CodeOptimist Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 Join the Club of Proud Singles... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZeZar Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 A LOT of gf threads lately.. .:=)So Timmie (or Timbo, just found out how cool Timmie is), got lucky with the girl that allready had a bf ?? Well, its cool You need to BE YOURSELF, if they dont like you, you still has the gf right ?? What would you do with the parents ? I know, wedding.. They like you, just not right now.. It will come friend, i promise... !!Just dont in front of them ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Argalius Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 I think the diner is a good idea. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aeros Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 You'll have to remember that sometimes your girlfriend's parents simply won't like you because you're her boyfriend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
last samurai Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 i had that problem, then i got dumped so it never made a difference, although thats why she dumped me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akya Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 because of her parents ?@CheeZy: true, most parents feel they "lose" the innocent little girl they had when she starts dating boys they're afraid the guys will corrupt her, hurt her or make her do things she will regret afterward...I guess it happens with boys as well no ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
last samurai Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 yeah, her parents didnt think we were right for each other so she decided we shouldnt date anymore, we are still friends but no more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akya Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 I feel sorry for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
last samurai Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 thanks, but i will find someone else Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akya Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 I'm sure of it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
last samurai Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 well if you read my posts from friday you would see i kind of already did Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akya Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 argh...I'm really not up to date with things !! sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
last samurai Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 its fine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Op Posted April 5, 2004 Report Share Posted April 5, 2004 I guess it happens with boys as well no ? My dad often bugs me about girls. I don't talk to him about this subject because frankly, this isn't anything to say (just take a look at my sig and you know why). But he assumes I'm just keeping secrets....... <_< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
last samurai Posted April 5, 2004 Report Share Posted April 5, 2004 dads usually want their son to date but not their daughter, thats what its like for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chichigrande Posted April 5, 2004 Report Share Posted April 5, 2004 I don't really have a problem with this, seeing how everybody likes me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Tutankhamun Posted April 5, 2004 Report Share Posted April 5, 2004 lol, sure Matt. Tim, is it that they give you dirty looks or are they not welcoming to you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CodeOptimist Posted April 5, 2004 Report Share Posted April 5, 2004 My dad often bugs me about girls. I don't talk to him about this subject because frankly, this isn't anything to say (just take a look at my sig and you know why). But he assumes I'm just keeping secrets....... <_< I know you well enough that you wouldn't take that President position without a strong opinion on these things (long live CPS) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Klaas Posted April 5, 2004 Report Share Posted April 5, 2004 I've gone through a similar thing. I was dating a girl but here parents are Christian and quite fanatic about it. So they didn't really like it that she was dating an atheist. Her mother didn't have too many problems with it though, I'm always friendly and kind so she liked me. Her dad however saw me as an evil atheist (although I never even mentioned it or talking about religion with them). My best friend went to the same Christian community as she, so his parents started to "insult" me too when I started dating her. They said I'm someone who has had tons of gf's already and doesn't care much about it, but actually that wasn't true at all. My best friend was the guy who is/was like that about girls, I've always been very serious about it. So we split up eventually, partly because of her dad and my friend's mother trying to ruin our relationship.Things like this might be a serious issue, but remember that every situation is different. Just be nice and friendly but also stay yourself. Many parents need to get over this, it's not so easy for them to 'give' their child to a stranger, but they'll get used to it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZeZar Posted April 5, 2004 Report Share Posted April 5, 2004 My dad often bugs me about girls. I don't talk to him about this subject because frankly, this isn't anything to say (just take a look at my sig and you know why). But he assumes I'm just keeping secrets....... <_< Lol, like in American Pie ? I guess it happens with boys as well no ? Well, no! Girls are like the things that are careful! its like, if a guy goes out, its cool! If a girl goes out, its like" WHO IS HE, and so on ...". Thats what i have the impression of... Im tired btw!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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