My friend and i have this game, both on Mac, i have Snow Leopard and he has Lion, the game works we can play offline skirmishes against AIs. BUT, we cant seem to connect to each others servers, well we actually dont know how to set up a server, we can host game, but the other cant join. I read something about the port 20595, i have port forwarded that and gave my friend the IP but he still couldnt join. Can someone please give me a simple (no technical stuff) answer on how we can join each other. Thanks. -PS this game is awesome. Love it.